How to Talk Dirty To a Woman (Use This To Drive Her Crazy).

For a woman, arousal is more psychological than physical.

As a man, seeing a pretty girl is all you need to become aroused.

But women need to experience certain levels of being desired, dominance and even “taboo”, before she can hit her highest levels of arousal.

And the easiest way to convey all these is through dirty talk.

You can pump a woman forever until she’s sore, without giving her an orgasm.

But add a few choice lines of dirty talk and she’ll cum continuously, till she collapses under you in a heap.

Talking dirty is easy, but you have to commit to it fully for it to be effective.

When you talk dirty, you should stand behind your words and show no hesitation.


Below are the 4 different ways to talk dirty to a woman:

#1. Dominant Dirty Talk:

Command her to say:

  • “I surrender myself to you, you can fuck me however and wherever you want”
  • “My pussy belongs to your”
  • “I am your horny little slut”
  • “I exist only to sexually satisfy you”
  • “Fuck me with that gorgeous cunt of yours”

In your interactions with women, dominance should always be present.

As I mentioned earlier, it is one of the hottest attributes a man can possess in the eyes of women.

So beyond just telling what to say, command her to do stuff.

During sex, command her to go and put on heels for you.

Command her to get on her knees and suck your cock.

Command her to finger herself for you.

Command her to bend over and put her ass in the air for you.

If you’re both in a bar, restaurant or club, tell her to go to the bathroom, remove her panties and come over and hand it to you under the table.

When she does, put it in your pocket.

She’ll be insanely turned on by this, and can’t wait to rip off your clothes the moment you two get home.

On a final note, being dominant is not something you whip out during sex and then become a whinny bitch afterward.

It should be a way of life for you.

It means taking responsibility as a man and getting your shit handled.

It means not whining & complaining to your woman about stuff.

Grouses go up, as they say.

The less dominant person complains to the more dominant one.

When you internalize dominant behaviour and remove whinny ones, it becomes easier for you to be congruent with dominance during sex.


# 2. Statements of Intent:

In this type of dirty talk, you explicitly tell the woman the dirty things you are going to do to her.

  • “I am a going to stuff you full of babies”
  • “I am going to fill your pussy with my cum”
  • “I am going to cum all over your tits”
  • “I am going to tie you up and fuck you so hard until you can’t walk”
  • “I am imagining your lips wrapped around my cock.”

My goal in this article is not to tell you exactly what to say, but rather to give you a template.

I’m sure there are specific things that turn you on. So tell her how you’re going to do those things to her.


#3. Statements of Desire:

In this category of dirty talk, you express your sexually long for the girl.

How much you want her.

How much you want to ravish her…

  • I can’t wait to get home and fuck your sweet, tight pussy
  • I can’t wait to taste you
  • I can’t concentrate at work today, I’ve been thinking of your gorgeous pussy all day long.
  • I can’t wait to fill your pussy with my cock.
  • I’ve been hard all day thinking about you.


#4. Compliments:

Here you sexually compliment your woman.

And since it’s dirty talk, you go to town and be as explicit as possible.

  • Your pussy tastes so good
  • You have such beautiful breasts
  • You have a very fragrant cunt
  • You have such a tight hot body
  • I love fucking you baby
  • Your pussy is so tight and sweet and juicy



Of course, for maximum effect, you have to mix them up.

However, depending on how you feel, you can use one category more heavily than the others.

Let’s say you traveled on a business trip, and you’re away from your woman, then, naturally, it’s going to be more desire type dirty talk, than the others.

How To Keep A Hard on After Cumming

Do you want to learn how to keep a hard-on after cumming…

So that you can sexually satisfy the women in your life?

If yes, then I’ll teach you how to do it right now.

To keep a hard-on after cumming, you need to become a multi-orgasmic man.

You need to develop the ability to have multiple orgasms in a row – like women.

And it’s easy.

You can achieve this feat using a simple set of exercises called the PC Muscle exercises or Kegel exercises or pelvic floor exercises.

It is named after the American doctor who popularized it.


Your Refractory Period is The Enemy:

In men, once we ejaculate we go into a refractory period, and once we’re in this “period”, it is physically impossible to have further orgasms.

And 99% of men cannot maintain an erection in during this phase.

I’m sure you know what I’m talking about – from personal experience.

Your penis becomes hypersensitive, and you temporarily lose all interest in sex.

Your girl is lying there looking at you.

You know she is not happy with you and wishes that you’d last longer…

But your penis is spent.

You’ve orgasmed and there’s nothing else you could do.

Until now…


How to perform PC Muscle exercises to keep a hard-on after cumming:


#1: Locate your PC muscle:

The PC muscle is easy to find.

It is the set of muscles you clench when you keep yourself from urinating.

It is located between the under of your ballsack and your anus.

The easiest way to find them is to stop yourself mid-way during urination.

The muscles that you contracted to stop your urine flow are what you are looking for.

It is the same set of muscles that spasm to push out cum when you orgasm.

The goal is to train it to become stronger (it’s a muscle remember).

And once it becomes stronger, you can voluntarily contract it to just before orgasm – to keep yourself from ejaculating.

And if you have a dry orgasm – without ejaculation – you won’t lose your erection.

Your goal is to train your PC muscle to be strong enough to do this.

With consistency, you will be able to keep a hard-on after cumming within a few weeks.


#2. Long Squeezes/Clenches:

  • Clench and hold your PC muscle for a minute then release it
  • Rest for 10 seconds
  • Repeat

Clench and hold for a total of 10 minutes.

Of course, don’t forget to rest for 10 seconds in between each rep.

Do this morning and night.


#3. Short Squeezes/Clenches:

  • Clench and release continuously for a minute.
  • Rest for 10 seconds
  • Repeat

Do this too for a total of ten minutes. With rests of 10 seconds in between each rep.

Do this morning and night too.


Where to practice PC muscle exercises:

You can practice these anywhere…

You can do them sitting on a park bench.

In a coffee shop.

Lying in your bed.


And the sweet part is that no one else will ever know.


Practice keeping a hard on after cumming, during masturbation:

One of the best times to practice is during masturbation.

Stroke yourself until you on the verge of ejaculation, then clench and hold your PC muscle to see how much control you’ve attained.

Wash, rinse, repeat…

Also, you can practice with your partner.


The right time to squeeze your PC during sexual stimulation:

The right time to clench your PC muscle is the moment right before ejaculation.

Imagine there’s a 1, 2, 3, go countdown leading up to when you cum.

Clench it immediately the count gets to 3.

Clench and hold.

Also stop all thrusting motion.

What will happen is you’ll have a dry orgasm.

You’ll orgasm without ejaculating.

You’ll feel the same pleasure you normally do from an orgasm.

But what you’ll find is that instead of losing your erection, it comes back to rock-hard in under 10 seconds.

Way to go…

With this ability, you will get into an elite group of men who can have sex with their women for as long as needed.

I hope you don’t get lazy and stop practicing.

Don’t procrastinate too.

Begin now.


How To Stop Cumming Fast (7 Safe Methods That Work Quickly)

Are you tired of the embarrassment of cumming too fast?

If yes, then I can help you become the bedroom champ your woman desires.

Here Are The 7 Safe Methods To Stop Cumming Too Fast:

1. PC Muscle (or Kegel) Exercises: For me, this has been the most dependable long-term solution.

It has turned me into a multi-orgasmic man.

And if you do these exercises, you will gain the ability to last longer and have multiple orgasms too.

Something, normally, only women could do.

That is, you have an orgasm right now, and in the next 30 seconds you're banging her again - as if you hadn't cum.

Exercising your PC muscle will also help you have harder and fuller erections.

BTW, PC muscle is short for Pubococcygeus Muscle.

It is the muscle that controls urination, and that spasms when you ejaculate.

It is located on the floor of the pelvic cavity, between your anus and your balls.

In its untrained state, the PC muscle is weak and you have minor voluntary control over it.

Enough control to keep you from wetting yourself, but not enough to stop a powerful spasm like an orgasm.

PC Muscle exercises are very easy to do, they consist of clenching and unclenching the PC muscle a given number of times during the day.

You can do this while sitting or lying down. And no one can even tell that you're doing something.

Here's a comprehensive PC muscle exercise article. It includes diagrams and instructions.

Usually, you will start seeing results within 1 month.

Personally, I was able to control my ejaculation within 2 weeks - with the help of PC muscle exercises.

2. Take short breaks from Penetration: This is an effective method you can start using right away.

When you feel yourself getting closer to an orgasm, stopping your penis from getting stimulated will help you stave off cumming.

If you're in her thrusting, slow down or pull out completely.

If she's giving oral or a handjob, stop her.

When you take a break such as this, you don't have to stop all sexual activity.

You can use the opportunity to kiss, careless and fondle her. Give her head or just cuddle.

After a little while your arousal will wane a little, then you can continue with penetrative sex, or whatever you want.

Should you let her know you're trying to cum?

If you want to.

There's no shame in it.

You can even turn it into a compliment for the girl.

I usually just say, "Your pussy is so sweet; I'm trying so hard not to cum right now"

They always love this.

Sometimes, if it's with some fun/crazy girl, she'll then start thrusting and gyrating her hips to make you cum.

Fun times...

3. Change positions: Some positions make it easier for you to cum faster.

For me, that position is the modified doggy style where the girl lies flat on her stomach and I penetrate from behind.

It is also my favorite.

I'm sure you have yours.

What you need to do is switch to a different sex position once you feel yourself approaching orgasm.

You can switch to doggy, or have the girl get on top.

Just any other position that isn't as "sensitive" for you.

4. Masturbate Before Sex: I don't advise you do this often, because the "drive" you dissipate when you masturbate is the same you need to "perform".

So if you leak your "drive" by masturbating before sex, you might find it difficult to perform when the time comes for sex.

I only recommend this is if you haven't cum in a long time.

I find that I reach orgasm faster if I hadn't ejaculated in while.

And most guys last longer during the second round of sex.

So if there's a girl you're perhaps seeing for the first time, and you're over excited and anxious and don't want to "disappoint" her.

Then you can masturbate earlier in the day before you guys meet.

5. Use Special "Last Longer" Condoms: Indeed there are condoms specifically designed to make you last last longer in bed.

Some are thicker, while others have a numbing anesthetic to decrease the sensitivity of your penis.

Condoms labelled "Extra Safe", "Extra Strong" or "Extended Pleasure" are thicker.

Here's some condom thickness comparison...

  • Lifestyles Extra Strength: 0.9mm
  • Lifestyles Ultra Sensitive: 0.071 mm
  • Trojan Bare Skin: 0.045 mm

Also, some other condoms like Durex Performax Intense contain 5% benzocaine lubricant on the inside to numb your penis a bit so you don't cum fast.

6. Use Desensitizing Sprays, Creams and Gels: These class of products contain either benzocaine or Lidocaine as the numbing agents.

They make the penis less sensitive, in other words numb.

There are several products out there like the K-Y Duration Spray and Durex Play Longer.

7. Employ Extended Foreplay: Most women love foreplay more than actual penetration.

And only a miserly 25% of women can reach orgasm from penetrative sex.

A lot of them will tell you they prefer foreplay to last 20 minutes and penetration from say 5 - 10 minutes.

And what is our goal in all this?

To satisfy her of course!

So you can prolong your sex session with foreplay and also make her cum more - because she will be 10 times more aroused.

So, first use your tongue, fingers and even sex toys to get her engine revved up.

Your penis is only but one of the tools in your arsenal.

How To Finger A Girl To Crazy Orgasms.

Knowing how to finger a girl properly is an important tool to have in your sexual bag of tricks.

Your fingers don't ejaculate so there's no problem of losing an "erection".

And using your fingers to stimulate a woman's vagina is one of the most reliable ways of inducing a powerful g-spot orgasm.

The wrong way to finger a girl...
Most guy finger girls wrongly.

They make a stabbing motion in her pussy and that's it.

The stabbing motion does nothing for the girl.

A good place to learn how to finger a girl properly is from videos of girls masturbating, or from lesbian porn.

Watch how the girls touch their pussies.

Search for "female orgasm compilations".

Here Are The 6 Ways to Finger a Girl:

  1. The Clit Sandwich Technique: As the name says, with this type of fingering, you sandwich the girl's clitoris in-between her labia and knead continuously.

    The labia is the fleshy lips around the vagina. 

    The clitoris is very sensitive, and sometimes touching it directly with your fingers might be too jarring for the girl.

    Using the clit-sandwich technique is a great way around that.

    Also, it offers a variety of stimulation for the girl. 

    The feel of it is different from other types of fingering, so she will enjoy it as you would different spices in your food.

    You can also use this as a prelude to direct clitoral stimulation with your fingers...

    You can use it to warm the girl up and get her more wet so you'll have more juice to work with when you are ready to rub her clit.

  2. The G-Spot Technique: This is the most reliable way to give a girl g-spot orgasms - the most intense orgasm a woman can experience.

    Some women even squirt from this.

    To finger a girls g-spot, face your palm upwards, and insert your index finger about 2-3 inches into her vagina (about 2 knuckles deep).

    You will feel a "spongy" area on the "ceiling" of her vagina.

    Now, move your inserted finger towards you in a "come here" motion.

    Keep doing this over and over and you will see for yourself how crazy it drive her.

    Important: Go for the g-spot only after she's sufficiently aroused and wet. 

    You can also use a lubricant like K-Y Jelly or Durex Play.

    Also, if you are fingering a girl who can squirt (not all girls can), when she's getting close to squirting she might tell you she needs to get up and pee.

    Tell her to relax that it isn't urine.

    If she goes to the toilet to try and pee, nothing will come out.

    If she relaxes enough to allow the peeing sensation through, she will squirt.

    ​Make sure to place a towel under her...

  3. The Tornado Rub: This is exactly how many girls stimulate their clitoris when they masturbate.

    Just that most of the time you will be doing it from the opposite direction.

    To finger a girl using the tornado rub, put your fingers together and flatten your palm.

    Place your palm on top of her clitoris - with your fingers directly on the clit...

    Then start continuously rubbing, in a circular motion, until she orgasms and pushes your hand away.

  4. The Windshield Wiper Technique

    As in the above, put your fingers together and place them on her clitoris.

    Then, as if waving goodbye to someone, continuously move them from left to right to stimulate it.

  5. Heaven & Earth Technique: With the girl lying down, put your fingers together and place them above her clit - with your fingers pointing towers her feet.

    Then move your palm up and down continuously to stimulate her clitoris.

  6. The Clit & G-Spot Double Whammy: With this fingering technique, you stimulate both her clitoris and g-spot at the same time...

    Place your palm directly above her clit, with your fingers pointed towards her feet, then curve your middle finger downwards - to make contact with her g-spot.

    Then begin to move your hand up and down motion.

    This move will stimulate the clit and the g-spot simultaneously. 

Important Notes:

  • Clip your Nails: It goes without saying that a woman's vagina is a very sensitive area, so clip your nails before fingering her.

  • Use a Lubricant: Still on the sensitivity theme...use a lubricant to avoid chaffing her or even causing her injuries.

    My preferred brands are K-Y Jelly and Durex Play.

  • Maintain a Steady Rhythm: Rhythm is what sets good lovers apart from others.

    Fingering a woman haphazardly will not make her cum. Only a steady consistent rhythm would.

    Even when she gets very excited and is writhing, grinding heavily and moaning hard...

    Do not change what you were doing.

    Continue at the same pace and she will cum.

How To Give a Girl Head (So She Orgasms Like Crazy)

Do you want to be the first guy she thinks of whenever she gets horny?

If you answered "yes", then I am going to teach you how to give any girl the best head she's ever had.

Head that will make her cum explosively every single time.

Here's how to give a girl head she'll never forget:

  1. Warm her up first: Don't rush straight for a girls vagina.

    Take your time.

    Get her aroused first by exploring other parts of her body.

    Turn her on more by smooching her, making out, nibbling all over her body and sucking her breasts.

    Doing this builds up anticipation. And at its heart, this is what sexual teasing is.

    A girl's vagina is the most sensitive part of her body, and not rushing to stimulate it builds up a lot of tension's like when a girl strokes your cock and your balls - while avoiding the tip.

    So when you eventually get to her pussy, she's all wound up and waiting to burst like a dam.

    Spending a little time on other parts of her body before giving a girl head makes her cum faster, and more explosively every time.

  2. Focus on her clitoris: Once you're done worked her up a bit, zero in on her clitoris - because that's what will make her cum.

    A good example you should learn from is lesbian porn.

    Watch how the women give each other head.

    The sole focus is the clit because that's "where the money is".

  3. Rhythm is Everything: Let's use you as an example...

    When you're having sex with a girl, or are masturbating, without maintaining a steady rhythm you can't cum. it is with girls...

    They need that steady rhythm to get off too.

    A lot of guys end up using lots of haphazard motions when giving a girl head.

    There's no steadiness to what they're doing with their tongue.

    Remember the stereotype of good dancers being great in bed?

    It's because someone who dances well tends to have a good sense of rhythm.

    Another mistake girls find very annoying is when guys change the rhythm of what they are doing when he see's she's getting really into it and is about to cum.

    You might think that speeding up the motion of your tongue will work faster to send her over the edge, but it doesn't.

    What you'll end up with is a frustrated girl.

    If she starts writhing and squirming and gyrating her hips, continue doing EXACTLY what you were doing to get her there in the first place and she will orgasm in no time.

  4. Use the right type of motion: Most guys give head wrongly.

    Either they make a stabbing motion with their tongues, or they lap at the girls pussy like a dog drinking water.

    What you should do instead is suck or lick her clitoris.

    Forget what you see in porn.

    The right way to lick her pussy is to flatten your tongue like a towel over the clitoris and lick.

    Not just with the tip of your tongue...
    The same way you would lick honey off your palm.

    Then keep repeating this motion over and over and again.

    Of course you remember what I just told you about rhythm above, correct?


    Because good rhythm is the secret to great sex.

    Also, the right way to suck the clitoris is to do it the same way you would suck on lollipop.

    First there's a sucking action, but also you're twirling your tongue around it.

    This drives girls absolutely insane.

Important Tips:

  • No Teeth: It's important that you "sheath" your teeth when giving a girl head or you will bruise her.

    Even if you don't bruise her, it will be a very uncomfortable experience for her.

    If a girl gives you head and her teeth keeps touching the tip of your cock, I'm sure you won't enjoy that too.

  •  Tell her to wash up first: If a girl hasn't washed in some hours her pussy will likely have an unpleasant smell - especially after a long day, or from just dancing at the bar or club...

    So it's ok to politely tell her to go and clean up.

    Some girls might feel offended by this, so the best way to do this is to lead by example...

    You could go and shower first, then tell her to do same.

    Or you could ask her to join you for a quick shower.

  • How to know when she's cum: Right before she cums, she will usually stiffen her legs, and hold tightly onto your head.

    It's important that you don't change the rhythm at this point.

    Continue doing exactly what you were doing and you will push her over the edge.

    Some other girls will go doubly crazy with their writhing, hip gyration and pelvic thrusts - so try your best to hold her in position firmly. 

    The moment she cums, she will push your head away because the clitoris gets sensitive after they have a clitoral orgasm.

  • Practice safe sex: One can still get STDs from oral sex.

    So if you have multiple sexual partners, or are not certain you are exclusive with the person you're sleeping with use a dental dam.

    You could easily purchase one from a pharmacy.

How To Get A Blow Job Fast

Getting a blow job is easy.

However, there are certain mindsets you must adopt before hand to make girls want to suck your dick.

So today, I will show you how to get a blow job from the girls you like. Plus the mindsets that make it easy for this to happen for you.

Mindsets to get blow jobs quickly:

  1. Understand that getting a blow job isn't a big deal: In order to easily get blow jobs from girls, you first need to adopt the mindset that it's no big deal.


    Because if you think a blow job is a big deal, then the girl will think it's a big deal too.

    It's funny, but a lot of girls view blow jobs as not sex...

    They view it as being way below the intimacy of sex.

    So if you're relaxed and view it as casually as kissing, girls will sense that and be much more willing to blow you quicker.

    Just act like you're a cool guy who's used to having girls blow him.

  2. Understand that giving you a bj doesn't make her a slut: Women don't like to feel judged.

    Women love sex, and have strong sex drives too.

    But if they feel judged, they'll clam up and restrict the range of "activities" they'll engage in with you.

    I once a read a divorce story of a guy who got very mad after seeing a college video of his wife where she was gang-banged by 5 guys.

    He said wasn't even mad about the gang-bang, but because his wife had denied him anal and blow-jobs throughout their marriage.

    She lied to him that didn't like them, but guess what? She did all that and more in the video he saw.

    Why you may ask?

    She probably felt he'll think her a slut if she did all that stuff with him.

    If you want a girl to be sexually open with you, and to give you a blow job without reservations, she needs to know that you think it's normal for her to do that and still be respected.

Ways to get blow jobs fast:

  1. Suck her pussy first: The easiest way to get a blow job is to eat the girl out first.

    Some girls who might have hesitated to suck your dick, had you offered it first, will simply blow you because you sucked their pussy - because of reciprocity...

    It pays if you know how to properly eat a girl out too. I'll make a post about that soon.

    So after eating a girl out, all you have to do is lie on your back and gently guide her head to your cock.

    99% of the time she'll simply take it and put it in her mouth. No words need be spoken.

    You could also simply take no action and just tell her "suck my cock" (I always use cock - girls find it hot and very naughty)

    The only time this didn't work, I got up - without saying a word - put on my clothes, and walked out to go buy a drink.

    Her excuse was "I don't like doing it"...

    When I returned 10 minutes later, she gave me a thorough blow job - without being asked again.

  2. Baby-step it: While you guys are making out, unzip your fly (or remove your pants) and take her hand to your cock.

    She might remove it a few times, then keep her hand and fondle it.

    Once she does, tell her to kiss it. She usually will.

    Then gently guide her head and shove your cock in her mouth.

    It's important that you don't use force.

    If you use force, you'll generate resistance.

    Just gently maneuver her into the right position. 

    Baby-stepping your blow-job request is effective because of a psychological compliance tactic called the foot-in-the-door technique.

  3. Command her to do it: Yes, you read that right!

    The first day I tried this, I was blown away by the results...

    I had just learned about being sexually dominant with women, and how they love it.

    So I was making out with this girl in the dark and all of a sudden, I just blurted out in a commanding tone: "Get on your knees and suck my cock"

    To my utmost surprise she did exactly that without hesitation.

    She got on her knees and sucked my dick good.

    Earlier, I honestly thought if you said something like that to a girl that would get offended.

    But that's not how it works...

    Women respond very well to commands in the bedroom.

    They love dominance in men and it arouses them to no end.

A few more tips:

  1. Maintain good hygiene: Always clean your penis and the surrounding regions properly.

    Your groin and the surrounding areas are the smelliest parts of the human body.

    You don't want a girl to gag and decide against giving you a bj because your groin smells like rotten fish.

    Always wash your butt-crack well too, because when you part your legs during a blow job, any stench from there will hit the girl with full force.

    And it is never pleasant.

    Trim your pubic hair too, because it is a breeding ground for odor causing bacteria.

  2. No blow job doesn't mean "no sex": Some find giving blow jobs repulsive.

    Don't hold it against them.

    They just don't fancy it.

    So if a girl refuses to suck your dick, don't see it as game over. She might still have sex with you.

    So even if she "rejects" your attempts for a blow job, don't despair.

    Still go ahead and try for sex.

    Trust me, women can be funny most times. 

    Some girls will not kiss you but will have sex with you - go figure!

Top 5 Signs She is Not Interested in You (and What To Do About It)

When a girl is not interested, she will show many signs to pass this across.

Unfortunately, for some guys, you'll need to hit them over the head with these signs before they can get the hint.

I was once like this too.

Well, never worry, because today, I am going to reveal to you the signs that show - in no uncertain terms that she's not interested.

Top 5 Signs She's Not Interested in You:

  1. Doesn't hold eye contact:

    Eye contact is a huge sign of interested from a girl.

    A girl who doesn't like you or find you attractive — for whatever reasonwill avoid eye contact at all costs.

    The first time your eyes meet, instead of looking down to the floor and back up again — a sing of submissiveness and invitation — she will look away to the side and not re-establish eye contact again.

    If you are face to face talking with her, she might place her gaze on her phone, or stare at something taking place in your immediate environment.

    Or just plain look to the side and stare at nothing - a blatant sign of disinterest.

    Sometimes however, a girl who likes, but is shy will avoid eye-contact. So use this in combination of the other cues below to make a good read of the situation.

  2. Declines your invitations for dates — without offering alternative dates:

    Everyone is busy.

    So much is going in people's lives.

    And it is unreasonable to expect that every girl will drop everything they are doing to to come and hand out with you whenever you invite them out.

    However, usually, when you invite an interested girl out and it's bad timing for her, she's going to be like: 

    "Please not Thursday night", "How is your Sunday evening?"

    Thing is, she'll try to show that it's not an outright rejection, but was due to the timing.

  3. She doesn't pick your calls or respond to your messages:

    This one is pretty clear and straightforward.

    When a girl is not interested she will ignore your efforts to reach her and keep in touch.

    They usually do this in order not to give you false hopes.

    A girl who is attracted to you will respond to your messages.

    And if you call her when she's unable to pick, she'll call back at her earliest convenience.

    So anytime a girl repeatedly ignores your attempts to get a hold of her, and doesn't return your calls, take the hint and leave her alone.

    There are many fishes in the sea, as they say.

  4. Refuses to hang out with you alone:

    Sure, on some occasions, when you meet a girl newly, depending on her age and comfort levels, she might want to come along with a friend on her first outing with you.

    But that's only OK for say the first couple of times — except you're going for a sly devil.

    However, if she actively tries to avoid spending time alone with you by bringing other people along, then that's a very clear sign that she isn't interested in anything romantic with you.

    Perhaps she just wants to be friends.

    Whatever. Being friend-zoned isn't the end of the world. You could turn it around — although difficult.

  5. She refuses to "invest":

    When a girl is interested in you one of the most important signs she'll show is "investing" in you.

    She'll spend her money and time to please you.

    She'll travel long distances to come and visit you. She might do chores for you or buy you stuff, etc.

    On the other a hand, a a clear sign that a girl isn't interested in you is an inability to "invest" in you.

    She will refuse to do anything that will entail the slightest inconvenience for her.

    Once she sees that something you want will cost her time or money, she'll refuse to be part of it.

What to do when a girl isn't interested: Nobody can get every girl he fancies.

No one.

So what to do when a girl isn't interested is take the rejection like a boss and move one with your life.

I can assure that no matter how cute and sexy you think she is today, tomorrow, you're going to meet a hotter, sexier cuter girl.

So improve yourself to become the best you can be in attracting women.

The tons of articles on this site and in my newsletter will help you in this regard.

How To Deal With Rejection From a Girl (And Turn it Into a Yes)

A rejection can be very brutal to our egos.

It makes you question your value as a person...

Am I not good enough?

Do I really suck as a person?

Today, I will teach you how to handle rejections from girls like a boss.

And even how to turn a rejection into a yes.

Rejections are good...

The more you get rejected, the more you'll get laid.

If you're getting rejected it means you're taking action and talking to girls.

Which means you are already better than 90% of guys out there.

A popular saying I like goes thus: "You miss 100% of the shots you never take." 

This applies especially to success with women. If you don't risk rejection then your chances of getting laid are zero.

Here are the top 4 ways to handle rejections from a girl:

  1. Realize that rejections are not final:

    A "no" doesn't mean "never".

    When a girl rejects you, the normal thing to think is that that's the end of it.

    But it isn't so.

    Girls reject guys on a whim all the time - depending on their moods.

    Most times if you ask a girl why she rejected a guy she'll tell you, "Hmmm...I don't know"

    Also, a girl can't know you well enough in a few minutes to reject you.

    She only rejected her impression of you at that very moment.

    Some girls who rejected me have gone on to sleep with me within 24 hours of the so-called rejection. 

    You might come back in 5 minutes she's in a better mood. Boom! A different type of interaction than the one you guys had earlier.

    Maybe she's having a really shitty day.

    Maybe her cat died, or she lost her job, or is a lesbian.

    You don't know this.

    So if a girl rejects you today, try again later. The result might surprise you.

    Women love tenacity and persistence in guys.

    Sometimes girls reject you because they think you don't like them enough.

    Funny isn't it?

    By trying again she a few more times she'll rationalize that "he really must like me if he's persisted this much"

    Then boom! She opens up to you like a rose...

  2. Embrace an abundance mentality:

    The popular free dating website chose the best name possible: Plenty Of Fish.

    If one girl rejects you, big deal?

    There are billions of other girls in the world.

    And practically, there are hundreds or even thousands of other girls you have a chance with depending on your location.

    Deeply realizing this will develop in you you an abundance mentality.

    Don't let the rejection from one girl bother you one bit.

    If it's not her, then it's another girl.

    Right now, there are several other girls who will be extremely overjoyed to have you.

    Girls who will worship the ground you walk on.

    But you have to go out there and find them.

    Embracing abundance by realizing the endless options you have causes you to be less needy.

    And a lack of neediness is very attractive to women.

  3. Take rejections as feedback to improve yourself:

    The most successful people in life take failure as opportunities to learn.

    Failure and rejections provide you with invaluable opportunity to learn.

    Maybe your eye contact sucks.

    Maybe you voice sounds like that of a little girl.

    Maybe your body language sucks, or you dress like a hobo.

    Maybe you're too clingy.

    If you don't get rejected, you might never get a chance to improve yourself socially.

    After each rejection, you should take the lesson from it and move on.

    And if you apply the lesson you learned then your next interactions will be better.

    Personally, I started off by experimenting. I'll approach a few girls in a certain this manner to see how they reacted.

    If they reacted positively, then I'll add that approach or behavior to my repertoire. If not, I'll scrap it and experiment with something else.

    And before you know it you have a very deep bag chocked full of social skills.

    So embrace failure.

  4. Use rejections to fuel your "fury" and get the hottest girls:

    Most times when I get rejected by a girl, it turns me into The Incredible Hulk...

    Learn to do the same.

    Let's say you go out at night. Perhaps you had a long day at work.

    Or had a boring day at home.

    You are not in a social mood yet, so your vibe just sucks.

    The quickest way to get in "the zone" is to approach a number of girls and "get rejected".

    After a point your brain just snaps, "Enough!", "I'm good enough for these girls", "One of them is coming home with me tonight"

    Once this happens, you'll notice a surge of adrenaline and testosterone that wells up a force in you, ready to explode.

    Now you're all fired up and your brain is in the right place.

    You feel like a caveman who has to take the woman he wants.

    Magically, the next girls you meet become receptive because they can feel the pent up masculine energy coming from you.

    And the funny thing is, if you go back to the girls who rejected you earlier, they'll also be very receptive because you're now in the zone.

Why Don’t Girls Like Me? (Top 5 Things You’re Doing Wrong Revealed)

​If girls don't like you, trust me, it's not because of your looks.

Or your money, or car, etc.

It's mostly about things you can change in yourself beginning right now.

Today, I will reveal to you the reasons girls reject you, despite your best efforts.

And I won't just stop there...

I'll also tell you what to do to fix each problem.

If you apply the advice that I have for you below, your friends won't recognize you in a couple weeks.

And girls will be helplessly drawn to the new masculine you.

Here are the top 5 reasons why girls don't like you:

  1. Being too nice: It's good to be nice to people. It's the mark of a gentleman.

    But you have to draw the line whenever it drags you into foolishness.

    What most guys do is that they are extremely nice to girls. They bend over backwards to fulfill her every whim.

    She might say she needs some stupid item from next town and he'll drop everything he's doing and drive 45 minutes both ways to get it for her.

    Sure it's good to be chivalrous. Women are physically weaker than us and if she's with you she's kinda under your "sphere of protection".

    So if we're both out and it's cold, you could give her your coat, etc.

    But what guys do wrong is that they turn into a girls footmat and lapdog.

    You have to learn to say NO.

    It's one of the most attractive things that can come out of a man's mouth.

    If you can't say no then you'll spend your life being a slave to other people's whims.

    If a girl asks you to do something you don't want to, simply tell her no.

    And you know the surprising thing?

    Women secretly like it when you're not a slave to their wishes.

    They see you as a real man with a backbone who cannot be manipulated or pushed off his part.

  2. Not being "yourself": One of the most attractive attributes a man can have is authenticity - being himself...

    When you interact with girls, you might think you're being yourself.

    But more often than not you are: scared or intimidated.

    If a talking to a harmless girl intimidates you, then you're not being yourself.

    Your ancestors fought deadly battles and hunted monsters.

    Your ancestors battled the elements and stamped order into a chaotic, deadly environment.

    You are the offspring of champions and PIMPS.

    Your fore-fathers slept with the hottest cave women.

    Lions don't give birth to antelopes.

    So how the hell are you being yourself when you find a girl intimidating. The absolute worst she can do is say no to your interest - finish.

    You're not going to die from that.

    If you are girls and still wonder why they don't seem to like you, then wonder no more...

    Women like guys who are bold and confident.

    Guys who don't make things awkward because they are REAL.

    They come for her if they want her, and don't hide their feelings and desire for her.

    Another way guys show inauthenticity is by adopting a fake persona...

    Don't try to imitate someone else.

    Stay true to your personal tastes.

    Don't act like a biker, or gang member if you're not one.

    If you're a geek, accept it and act like it. It will surprise you that lots of girls dig geeks.

    Whatever your personal quirks and tastes are, hot girls will still like you - if you accept yourself.

    "Imitation is suicide", said Emerson. And truer words have never been spoken.

  3. Hiding your sexual intent for the girl: Women are very sexual creatures.

    Or maybe there's some other reason for the billions of dollars they spend on sex toys each year?

    And this is aside sex with other women, men and masturbation with their fingers...

    For a peek into how sexual girls are, search for the following Reddit subreddits: gonewild, RealGirls, nsfw and on/off.

    They contain thousands of pictures, videos and gifs of women voluntarily showcasing themselves in the most sexual of ways. 

    Girls love sex, and they know you love sex too.

    So any sort of pretense on your part forces them not to like you.

    If you like a girl sexually, stop trying to hide it.

    Learn how to arouse her quickly and take action.

    Girls are generally horny and looking for a guy who is shameless about his desires as a man to take them.

    Be that shameless guy and you will reap the rewards.

  4. Speaking too much: Knowing how to talk to girls is great. 

    But knowing how to shut the fuck up after you've learnt this is even better!

    Talking too much kills sexual tension, and reduces the chances of girl sleeping with you.

    Sure, initially, after you've just met a girl, you could bear the heavier load of the conversation - say 90/10.

    But the as the interaction progresses, strive something in the neighborhood of 30/70.

    Talk less and listen more - while maintaining intense eye contact with the girl.

    Girls love to talk and be listened to anyway, and if you're a good listener, you'll never have to worry about girls not liking you.

    Speak less, maintain eye contact and watch the sexual tension between the both of you shoot through the roof.

  5. Dressing poorly: A popular saying goes thus: "Dress like a king to be treated like one".

    If you dress poorly, then you shouldn't be asking why girls don't like you - because you have the answer right there.

    Girls put a lot of effort into looking good. And it is hard for them to like a guy who doesn't show he values himself to clothe himself well.

    Usually, your clothes cover about 80% of your body, so you should take great care in picking out things you'll put.

    Always go with clothes that fit you well. Iron them properly before use so that you look your best.

    There's no downside to dressing well.

    A great tip about cost is to "spend twice as much money for half as many clothes".

    When you do this, you buy better quality clothes that will last longer - and most importantly look good longer.

    Finally, it is also very important that yo stick to styles you're personally comfortable in.

    If dress shirts and pants are your preferred personal style, then stick to them. Don't dress like a biker or you will be incongruent.

    I hope this article benefited you as I intended.

    Let me know what you think below...

Top 7 Signs She Wants You To Chase Her.

Women will hardly ever chase you.

Instead, they'll drop hints and give you signs to act upon.

Unfortunately, many guys are inexperienced and miss these signs because they don't understand women.

From today, you will no longer be among those who don't get it.

Here are the 7 signs she wants you to chase her:

  1. She teases you with the possibility of sex: When a girl wants you to chase her, her biggest bait is sex.

    She will dangle its possibility to entice you.

    And it's now left for you to take action and act on it.

    She might bring up what she enjoys sexually. Or show you pictures of herself in sexy clothing.

    Or dress provocatively when she comes to meet you.

    What she's trying to say with all these is, "I like you, be a man and take me".

  2. She flirts with other guys in your presence: When a girls does this, don't get mad and feel disrespected.

    She's just trying to spur you into action so that you'll chase and win her over.

    Another thing she might do is tell you about all the other guys hitting on her - both real and imaginary...

    But you being the cool guy you are, you know this is a play for attention.

  3. She makes it obvious she'll be free at certain times: A girl who likes you and wants you to chase her will let you know about her free schedule.

    She does this in the hopes that you'll take the hint and ask her out.

    She might also inquire about your schedule instead.

  4. She playfully drops hints about both of you being a couple: I call this "future projection".

    She might start calling you "my boyfriend" or "my husband".

    Or introduce you to people as her boyfriend.

    Or talk about events both you two should attend as a couple.

  5. She holds deep, lingering eye-contact with you: Eye contact is one of the most powerful indicators of attraction.

    It is an open invitation from the girl for you to make a move and chase her.

    And for you, holding eye contact with a girl, without flinching is badass.

    It creates so much sexual tension that you can sleep with a girl very quickly.

    So when a girl engages you with prolonged eye contact, know that it's on.

  6. Proximity: A girl who wants you to pursue her will create several opportunities for you to do so.

    She will repeatedly pop up beside you - as if by accident.

    You could be walking on the street and she will cross over to your side so that both of you will cross directly.

    I've even had girls walk right into me.

    This is her giving you an opportunity to engage her.

    If you guys are say in the same class, she will make a point to sit very close to you - repeatedly.

  7. Flicking her hair: This is called preening.

    Here the girl subconsciously tries to make herself look good for you.

    She moves her hair from side to side to draw your attention to them - and to herself.

    I'm sure you've seen this several times but didn't really know what it meant.

    So from today be on the lookout for it, because it's a clear sign that the girl wants you to make a move.