For a woman, arousal is more psychological than physical.
As a man, seeing a pretty girl is all you need to become aroused.
But women need to experience certain levels of being desired, dominance and even “taboo”, before she can hit her highest levels of arousal.
And the easiest way to convey all these is through dirty talk.
You can pump a woman forever until she’s sore, without giving her an orgasm.
But add a few choice lines of dirty talk and she’ll cum continuously, till she collapses under you in a heap.
Talking dirty is easy, but you have to commit to it fully for it to be effective.
When you talk dirty, you should stand behind your words and show no hesitation.
Below are the 4 different ways to talk dirty to a woman:
#1. Dominant Dirty Talk:
Command her to say:
- “I surrender myself to you, you can fuck me however and wherever you want”
- “My pussy belongs to your”
- “I am your horny little slut”
- “I exist only to sexually satisfy you”
- “Fuck me with that gorgeous cunt of yours”
In your interactions with women, dominance should always be present.
As I mentioned earlier, it is one of the hottest attributes a man can possess in the eyes of women.
So beyond just telling what to say, command her to do stuff.
During sex, command her to go and put on heels for you.
Command her to get on her knees and suck your cock.
Command her to finger herself for you.
Command her to bend over and put her ass in the air for you.
If you’re both in a bar, restaurant or club, tell her to go to the bathroom, remove her panties and come over and hand it to you under the table.
When she does, put it in your pocket.
She’ll be insanely turned on by this, and can’t wait to rip off your clothes the moment you two get home.
On a final note, being dominant is not something you whip out during sex and then become a whinny bitch afterward.
It should be a way of life for you.
It means taking responsibility as a man and getting your shit handled.
It means not whining & complaining to your woman about stuff.
Grouses go up, as they say.
The less dominant person complains to the more dominant one.
When you internalize dominant behaviour and remove whinny ones, it becomes easier for you to be congruent with dominance during sex.
# 2. Statements of Intent:
In this type of dirty talk, you explicitly tell the woman the dirty things you are going to do to her.
- “I am a going to stuff you full of babies”
- “I am going to fill your pussy with my cum”
- “I am going to cum all over your tits”
- “I am going to tie you up and fuck you so hard until you can’t walk”
- “I am imagining your lips wrapped around my cock.”
My goal in this article is not to tell you exactly what to say, but rather to give you a template.
I’m sure there are specific things that turn you on. So tell her how you’re going to do those things to her.
#3. Statements of Desire:
In this category of dirty talk, you express your sexually long for the girl.
How much you want her.
How much you want to ravish her…
- I can’t wait to get home and fuck your sweet, tight pussy
- I can’t wait to taste you
- I can’t concentrate at work today, I’ve been thinking of your gorgeous pussy all day long.
- I can’t wait to fill your pussy with my cock.
- I’ve been hard all day thinking about you.
Here you sexually compliment your woman.
And since it’s dirty talk, you go to town and be as explicit as possible.
- Your pussy tastes so good
- You have such beautiful breasts
- You have a very fragrant cunt
- You have such a tight hot body
- I love fucking you baby
- Your pussy is so tight and sweet and juicy
Of course, for maximum effect, you have to mix them up.
However, depending on how you feel, you can use one category more heavily than the others.
Let’s say you traveled on a business trip, and you’re away from your woman, then, naturally, it’s going to be more desire type dirty talk, than the others.