How To Sexually Arouse A Woman Quickly (9 Advanced Tips)
So there's a woman you know, and you want to sexually arouse her.
How do you get her so aroused that she rips off your clothes?
That's exactly what I'll reveal to below...
Here are the 9 ways to sexually arouse a woman so bad that she rips off your clothes:
- Become horny: To arouse a woman, you have to become aroused first.
Because arousal begets arousal.
If you engage the girl from a logical, "intellectual" headspace. She'll engage you from there too.
If you want her to feel horny and aroused, then you have to go there first.
She needs to feel the unstifled desire coming from you.
She needs to feel that she's in danger of being fucked by you, the first moment you get, until she surrenders herself to waves of orgasmic pleasure.
Your desire is one powerful element that arouses women to no end.
When you see a woman you desire, the most natural thing for you to do is to have an erection.
Because if you truly desire a woman, you will get aroused at the sight of her.
What happens is that there is so much negative social programming in your head telling you you're a creep, or a pervert, or that it's wrong to desire women sexually.
And because of this programming, you don't let yourself go to fully feel what you feel.
You are ashamed to become aroused.
You are ashamed to let a woman know that you desire her.
You are terrified of your own erection.
But if you hold back, then she is going to hold back too.
You need to look at her at her as a sexual being - because both of you are.
How to become horny for the girl...
=> Check her out shamelessly: Look at her.
Really look at her....like a pack of lions circling deer.
Check out her lovely ass.
Her supple breasts.
Her shapely legs.
Oh! Her succulent lips.
Imagine yourself kissing them, squeezing them, caressing them and cumming on them.
Really look at her...
Until unstoppable desire wells up in you.
=> Picture her in heat: In your head, picture her on the edge of orgasm...
Imagine her pussy all soaked and glistening with her juice.
She's so horny, and so wet for you...
She's just about to explode and is furiously rubbing her clit for you.
Picture yourself deep inside her, covered in her juices and pounding her hard.
She's moaning in your ear, and holding you tight.
Imagine yourself cumming inside her.
Picture her riding your cock and cumming all over it, until she falls over and rests on your chest.
If you can let yourself freely feel even a quarter of this, then you'll find out how electric it is.
And when she feels that sexual energy oozing out of you. She can't help but respond to you in a sexual manner too.
...because you've gone there first...
- Fall in love with the woman:
Maybe your intention is to have sex with her this one time.
To arouse a woman, or before she can allow herself to act on her arousal for you...
She needs to feel that she's special to you in some way.
That you really, really like her.
Even if it's not 100% true.
If she can't feel that "love-struck" energy coming off you, then it will be hard for her to open herself up to you.
Remember: whatever you feel, she feels.
You want her to feel like you're love-struck, like she's the only woman in the world for you in that moment.
That she's special.
But what's there not to fall in in love with?
Is the way she rolls her hips as she walks.
Or the way her eyes glisten when she laughs.
Or the music of her voice.
Or the feel of her skin.
Or the way she smiles like the sun.
Fall in love with her...
She needs to feel that, on some level, you care about her - even if it only lasts those fleeting moments you two will share.
You see, no matter how popular you are, we are still all alone in this world.
And sex is one of the most intimate connections you could ever share with someone.
So there's a communion there...
If you can genuinely feel a deep love for the women you meet, then the world is yours.
Because they will open up to you like lilies to the rays of the summer sun.
Check out a guy like Russell Brand. You can see that deep love he has for the feminine.
And what is the result?
Women see him and instantly get aroused.
They meet him and quickly fall in love because they can feel the deep love coming from him.
- Have FULL Sexual Intent: You know how it is in law, if you mistakenly ran over your ex with a truck, they'll try to determine if you had malicious intent or if it was just a reckless accident because you ran a red light...
That's also how it is with women.
Three guys can see the same woman and have different "intents".
The first guy might be like, "I just read this article online where it says I should approach the girl this way. Let me see if it will work for me."
The second guy might be trying to look cool in front of his friends. So he approaches the woman to enhance his reputation among his peers.
And one very important thing is that women can feel your intent, strongly, when you approach them...
The third guy, he's just horny.
He's approaching her because he thinks she's hot.
Because he loves her ass and those delicious mounds on her chest.
So he's approaching her with FULL sexual intent...
And because his intent is 100% sexual, he becomes aroused...
And because he is aroused, the girl becomes aroused too, and good things happen from there.
And another very important thing is that for women, a man's attractiveness is not determined by his looks but by his actions.
So when a woman sees a sea of men, she can't tell who is "sexually attractive" or not until he distinguishes himself via his actions.
What kind of guy will see a girl and instantly become aroused?
The kind of guy who feels he deserves her.
And for women, this entitlement is the biggest sign of attractiveness in a man.
In fact, if you can see a woman you like and become aroused - with no shame or apology. Then 95% of your job is done.
The rest is just minor details.
- Make Lots of Eye-Contact: Your eyes are powerful seduction weapons.
Use them to arouse women as they are meant to.
When you lock eyes with a woman, not only does she feel what you feel because of her mirror neurons.
But a powerful chemical, phenylethylamine - the same chemical responsible for the feeling of falling in love - gets released.
In my post on how to attract women with body language, I listed a number of interesting eye contact experiments you should definitely check out.
Eye contact generates so much intimacy that I've had women tell me on multiple occasions that it feels as if we were already having sex (in that moment) - even though we were still out, and recently just met.
That's the power of eye contact.
- #5: Speak Slower & Deeper:
Women find certain types of voices arousing.
(I go into a lot more detail in my body language post).
Males voices that are deep turn them on.
Don't be alarmed if you don't currently have a deep voice.
You don't need to sound like James Earl Jones (who voiced the "This is CNN" tagline and also Mufasa, in Lion King).
If you your voice is currently nasal or high pitched. It need not be so.
You are naturally capable of having a deeper sounding voice.
Just breathe in properly and speak from your chest.
Also, speak slower.
Almost as if you're high.
You don't need to say much to a woman to arouse her.
When you have something to say, on't rush to blurt them out - as if some more worthy male will appear and cut you off.
You are the king of the universe.
And the fact that you're fucking her tonight is already written in the stars.
Nothing can possibly fuck it up.
In fact, you should act as if you have an already signed agreement that guarantees it's happening tonight.
And when you are relaxed like this, and have no concern in the world, then she'll be like, "Who is this guy?!"
Your relaxation will lead her to relaxation.
And when she's relaxed, then arousal can happen. Because you can't be stressed and aroused at the same time.
- #6: Touch Her:
Making physical contact with a woman is powerful.
First, it places you in the frame of someone who is her lover.
And later in the day when you try to make out with her, there's not too much weird tension - because you've already been touching casually throughout your interaction.
Take her hand for no reason and look at her palm.
Reach out and check out her jewelry.
Take her hand as you walk on the street, or lead her over to a place by the small of her back.
Touch her as much as possible - without overdoing it.
However, don't go overboard and do stupid things like finger her on the dancefloor...
I've done that severally and it always fucks you up in the end.
Because buyer's remorse sets in.
If you want to bring out the big guns (heavy make outs), wait.
I'll tell you what to do instead in my next point.
When you guys are out, what you should do is give her little tastes of what's to come.
Just a little.
The rest of the heavy stuff will come when there's no going back.
Secondly, touching produces the powerful hormone oxytocin.
And oxytocin plays an important role in bonding, building trust and affection.
It is released when we hug, cuddle, orgasms, etc.
And it is the hormone responsible for one of the strongest bonds on the planet: the bond between mothers and their babies.
And one thing you'll find out is that women love to be touched.
On a third note, touching a woman, even non-sexually, even gets her aroused.
So touch as much as possible, but don't overdo it.
You make physical contact, then you "roll back" and then you touch her again.
You don't go crazy and jump all over her like someone who has never seen a girl before.
It's casual and not a big deal because you're a boss.
You touch her because you want to, and because it feels good.
But you also "roll off" after a while because you're also cool and enjoy being there by yourself without touching anyone.
- #7: Lead and be Dominant:
Being dominant has a negative connotation.
It brings to mind the word "domineering".
But it's an entirely different thing.
You know, when women say they love a "take charge" kinda guy
....That's the type of guy they mean.
You know the novel, 50 Shades of Grey, that drives women nuts?
It's so popular with women because of the dominant lead character, Christian Grey.
Beyond the sexual aspects of dominance, a woman really just wants to surrender to you as a man.
So take charge and she'll love you for it.
When she asks where you want you guys to hang out, don't respond "wherever you like".
Instead, make a choice.
Be the leader.
If she asks what you want her cook, don't say whatever she likes.
Choose something too.
Most of the time, women just want to please you. Don't get in the way of that.
Dominance and leadership arouses women to no end.
And you don't need to be the President to convey leadership.
Just take charge in your interactions.
And this works its way up to sex.
Nothing turns women on like moves where you pin their hands above or beside their head, while you fuck them in missionary.
Or when you lift her up and soft slam her back against the door (in a way that doesn't hurt her of course), while you aggressively make out with her.
Or when you pull her hair while you bang her from behind.
Or when you push her into the bed while you rail her from behind.
Now if you can show a woman just glimpses of this dominant behavior during your non sexual interactions, she will become aroused.
- #8: Talk About Sex Freely: Most of the time, what's preventing a woman from becoming aroused, or from freely indulging her arousal is "judgment", by you or other people.
She wants to know that you won't think her a slut if she acts on her arousal.
So if you are the judgmental type, then you will have a problem having sex with women because one of their biggest fears is being labeled sluts.
On the other hand, if she finds out that you're that cool guy who knows that she's normal and should be celebrated for having sexual needs, then you're going to reap a bountiful harvest.
If you are non judgmental and see sex as normal, then she can relax and let herself be aroused.
Whenever I'm with women, I usually bring up sex fairly early because that's one of the biggest things on my mind.
If you're not a hypocrite or asexual, then like me, one of the biggest things on your mind is probably sex.
So feel free to bring it up...
Before you know it, I'm already talking about lesbians or some girl's ass or boobs, or orgasms, etc.
And what arouses her or sets her at ease is not the fact that you speak about these things.
But that she can see and feel, from your composure, openness and sincerity that you really are non judgmental about these things.
- # 9: Take Her To a Sex Location:
Usually, you're not going to have sex with her in a restaurant or a bar, etc.
I know there are people who like to have adventures in toilets and bathrooms, but that's not my thing.
I prefer beds...
Although I've been known to rumble in cars, a few times in the past...
So my point is that you shouldn't physically arouse her too much in a place where you two can't immediately have sex.
Also, when you take her to a place where the two of you have enough privacy for sex, then she can let you touch and arouse her in ways that she would have "shut down" otherwise.