Does She Like Me? (9 Subtle Signs a Girl Likes You).
"Does she like me?", you ask.
You're not alone, many men also have no clue.
Below are the 9 subtle signs that show a girl likes you:
- initiate eye-contact with her, she holds it for longer.
- Proximity: This must have happened to you several times without your noticing it.
Since most women cannot walk up to you and initiate first contact.
They do the next best thing...
They provide you with opportunities and avenues to make the first move.
When a girl likes you, she will move closer to where you are in the guise of doing something else.
Scientists call this Proxemics.
Let's say you're in a supermarket, she will "pretend" as if she's browsing for an item near you, so that you might use the opportunity of her being nearby to talk to her.
Another way this happens is you could be walking on the street and she's walking towards you on the opposite side.
She will cross the road and over to your side so that she'll pass right by you.
On occasion she might walk right into you (I'm not kidding), this might have even happened to you.
Also, she might drop something when she gets in front of you.
I recall an incident where a girl who liked me dropped her notes.
I wish I could tell you I picked up on what was going on and made things happen.
Unfortunately, I didn't.
This was when I was still clueless.
This happens so many times and in different ways that if you really don't know about it, you'd ever hardly know it's happening.
I can recall several times in coffee shops where the girl will show her interest by coming to sit right beside me (from her old sitting position).
It could be on a train, a bus, etc.
Just be on the lookout for it.
And in combination with these other subtle signs of a girl's interest, you'll never fail to pick up on it.
- Laughing at your jokes: I know you're such a funny guy. But trust me, you're not that funny.
Even Bill Burr and Chris Rock aren't that funny compared how a girl who likes you will laugh at some of the things you'll say.
When a girl likes you, one sure sign is laughing uncontrollably at things you say.
Things that are not even that funny - as if you've just told the funniest joke on the planet.
Laughter is a sign of submission.
If you were to visit the president in the White House today, first, you'll have a giant grin on your face - before he even says a thing.
And then you will laugh your ass off to anything he says.
When a girl likes you she becomes like this towards you.
- Physical contact: Another sure sign a girl likes you is touching.
She will tend to touch you a lot for no real reason, other than she feels like touchin you.
She will playfully hit you on the arm in reaction to things you've just said.
She might put her arm through yours, so that you guys walk arm-in-arm. or she might just reach out and hold your hand as you guys are walking.
She could come over and sit on your lap.
When she wants to say something, instead of using just words, she'll touch you to get your attention.
Also when she hugs you, she might linger a little longer, while holder you slightly tighter than normal.
Another big one is touching you with her breasts, without recoiling.
Girls are aware that any contact between a man and her breasts is sexual in nature, so they try their their best not to touch you with it.
But when a girl likes you, she will freely rub against you with her breasts.
Maybe when she's trying to pick up something beside you, or walk past you, or whisper something in your ear, etc.
- She Enters your personal space: This is close to the point above, but I'll give it a separate mention.
Your personal space is the immediate space surrounding you, which if someone moves into, you will feel uncomfortable or even threatened.
And this varies from culture to culture.
But the things is, we are all socially aware of it and keep out of each other's space.
However, when a girl likes you, she will constantly enter your personal space.
And also, she won't feel uncomfortable when you invade hers.
- Flicking or touching her hair: Another classic sign that a girl likes you is flicking or touching her hair.
Subconsciously, she is trying to look good for you.
And this behavior has its roots in evolutionary psychology.
A girl's hair is one of the signs that show youthfulness, and hence triggers attraction in men.
She's subconsciously trying to show you she's young and fertile.
And the funny thing is, they have no idea they're do this.
- Asking you personal questions: If a girl likes you, she will want to know more about you.
Once she starts asking you questions about yourself, know that she is very interested.
- Doing things you ask (Compliance): Another subtle sign a girl likes you is complying to things you ask.
If she doesn't like you, doing things for you will seem like pulling teeth.
But if she likes you, once you tell her to come and sit here, or do this, or do that - she'll do them quickly.
She'll be very agreeable when you tell her to come hangout to a specific location.
She'll follow when you say "let's go sit over there".
She'd readily and easily do most things you ask.
- Doing favors for you (Investment): this is also related to the point above.
Girls who are attracted to you will do small favors for you - without being asked.
She might see something you casually mentioned you like and she'll buy it for you.
She might prepare your favorite meal and invite you over.
She might offer to give you a back massage.
Or to accompany you to a place you didn't want to go to alone.
All without being asked.
And there's an interesting psychological principle that applies here: the more someone does favors for you, the more they like you.
It is called the Benjamin Franklin effect.
I'll go into this more in another post.