A rejection can be very brutal to our egos.
It makes you question your value as a person...
Am I not good enough?
Do I really suck as a person?
Today, I will teach you how to handle rejections from girls like a boss.
And even how to turn a rejection into a yes.
Rejections are good...
The more you get rejected, the more you'll get laid.
If you're getting rejected it means you're taking action and talking to girls.
Which means you are already better than 90% of guys out there.
A popular saying I like goes thus: "You miss 100% of the shots you never take."
This applies especially to success with women. If you don't risk rejection then your chances of getting laid are zero.
Here are the top 4 ways to handle rejections from a girl:
If girls don't like you, trust me, it's not because of your looks.
Or your money, or car, etc.
It's mostly about things you can change in yourself beginning right now.
Today, I will reveal to you the reasons girls reject you, despite your best efforts.
And I won't just stop there...
I'll also tell you what to do to fix each problem.
If you apply the advice that I have for you below, your friends won't recognize you in a couple weeks.
And girls will be helplessly drawn to the new masculine you.
Here are the top 5 reasons why girls don't like you:
Women will hardly ever chase you.
Instead, they'll drop hints and give you signs to act upon.
Unfortunately, many guys are inexperienced and miss these signs because they don't understand women.
From today, you will no longer be among those who don't get it.
Here are the 7 signs she wants you to chase her:
Attracting any girl is easy - if you know exactly what to do.
The same way you have no option but to feel attraction for a hot supermodel stepping out of a swimming pool...
Girls also have no option but to feel attraction for you if you act in a certain way.
No matter your looks, car or finances.
Attraction is not a choice...
As men, we evolved to feel attraction for women based on their physical attributes.
Attributes that indicate youth and fertility, like firm breasts, supple skin, youthful hair, etc.
Ten times out of ten, when you see a girl that meets these criteria, you will feel attracted to her - without fail.
On the other hand, women evolved to feel attraction for men based on attributes that indicated strength and status.
Strength here doesn't mean just physical strength. But most especially emotional strength...
Things like confidence, motivation, resourcefulness, persistence, dominance, stubbornness, leadership, etc.
These are all qualities that will ensure survival in a harsh, unforgiving ancestral environment. And even today.
And once you can communicate some of these girls will inevitably feel attraction for you.
They have no option in the matter...
Doesn't matter if you're bald, or short, or walk with a limp, or have a shitty car.
Maybe these might make her hesitant to introduce you to her friends, but she will sleep with you quickly. And continue doing so.
What to do to attract any girl:
How do you tell a girl you like her – without coming across as either desperate, needy or even a jerk?
I’ll tell you…
To do this, use an ancient storytelling technique to get your point across.
That is: show, don’t tell.
What this means is that, if you want to tell a girl you like her, just going up and going “hey, I like you” shouldn’t be high up on the list.
The age-old saying “actions speak louder than words” has never been more true than it is here.
Implying your interest in a girl through subtle messages, prompts and body language is much more effective than simply telling her out-right that you want to take things further.
Being too direct with a woman puts her in a position of responsibility; you’re putting her on the spot.
All this will do is lead you towards the dreaded friend-zone because it reeks of neediness and the fact you’re desperate for her approval.Instead, you want to make her feel something when taking things further is implied.
You want her to feel special in that moment because it will be an indication of what your future relationship might be like.
Be a Good Listener...
Listening to a girl is one of the best ways to demonstrate to a girl you like her.
A lot of times, girls want to vent about a particular issue or experience; they’re not asking you to solve their problems for them.
But, by listening to what she’s saying and occasionally interjecting with well-meaning advice, she’ll begin to see you as an asset to her life, and that’s what you want.
However, don’t just be a lapdog when she’s talking. If she’s being unreasonable, you need to gently let her know.
For example, if she’s ranting about a new guy at work’s lack of ability, say something along the lines of: “That’s fair enough, but maybe you’re being too hard on the guy? Give him a chance. He might learn.”
By just agreeing with her there’s no assertiveness or confidence being portrayed; two very important factors to keep present at all times.
Ask Her Out On A Date...
The difference between a potential partner and a friend-zoned guy is simple; the friend-zoned guy lacks the motivation to make his feelings known.
Asking a girl out on a date is making your intentions known with an air of assertiveness.
When you ask her out, you should keep your confidence high and neediness low.
Something like: “Hey Amy, how’s it going? Fancy going out one evening; have a good time and see how things go?
The worst that can happen is that we have a few drinks and a laugh. What do you think?”
Money Don’t Make Her World Go Round...
Casually paying the bill at a restaurant or bar is a move which lets a woman know you’re definitely interested.
Firstly, it shows that you’re investing more than just your time, you’re willing to put money down for her to enjoy herself.
The same is true for gifts, however, you run the risk of appearing desperate if it’s clearly something expensive.
The type of gifts you want to get her are very small, personal gifts which she’s expressed an interest in beforehand; something that shows you’ve been listening to her and understand her interests.
It doesn’t even have to be something you’ve bought of recent. It could be a book or movie from your collection.
Be Prepared For The Outcome...
There’s a very good chance she might reject you when you tell a girl you like her.
If this is the case, don’t freak out. Instead, keep it calm and collected.
Thank her for her honesty, then tell her that you hope things won’t be weird between the two of you.
In a lot of cases, this response can lead to good things.
If she sees you as a cool, level-headed person who is mature enough to handle rejection, that’s a definitely a tick in your favor.
There’s a huge possibility of her changing her mind in the future; people’s opinions change vastly over the years.
Also, if you two are still on good terms, she’s more likely to speak highly of you to her friends.
Remember, it’s important to make your intentions known but at the same time not appearing as needy.
Always refrain from appearing like a desperate lapdog who will bow to her every whim; that’s the exact opposite of what you should be doing.
The mind-set to keep in mind when putting the above methods into practice is that you will enrich her life by being a part of it.
Teasing a girl is easy once you understand the principle behind it.
And once you learn how to tease girls, they’ll be like putty in your hands because it drives them nuts (and makes them chase).
When you meet a new girl you like, typically, your actions consist of things that serve to draw her closer.
Actions that build rapport.In contrast, teasing consist of actions that playfully push her away.
Teasing drives women wild because it makes you a challenge.
You show yourself to not be another typical nice guy who will lick her shoes in order to win her over.
When you tease a girl correctly, her reaction is to chase YOU
...Because now she knows you’re a challenge and will need to put in some work to win you over.
Here are the different ways to playfully tease a girl:
A second date is a great opportunity for both of you to bond. Get to know each other better. And get more comfortable in each other’s coming company.
A second date is not a time for stupid “romantic dinners” – women hate that stuff!
Why you ask?
If you think meeting someone new is unsettling, trying having a formal dinner with them at the same time.
It very uncomfortable for the girls. And you can leave such activities for later in the relationship – when both of you are already comfortable with each other.
A second date should be action oriented…
The sort of activities girls enjoy the most on second dates are “action” packed.
Activities that get you guys moving through a place or places, discovering new stuff and maybe even gets your adrenaline pumping.
Don’t be another boring guy. Give her a good time.
Here are a list of 2nd date ideas…
Other excellent second date ideas include:
If you’re wondering how often you should text a girl, you’re not alone.
There is no one-size-fits-all rule for this. However, the main thing is to not appear needy and desperate.
you can text as often as you want depending on the situation.
Let’s say a girl is on her way to your house, but some Internet dating guru (idiot) told you to wait for five hours each time before you respond to a girl.
Now if she texts you to ask for directions are you going to wait for five hours?
How often you text a girl should be on a case by case basis.
Some girls already like you very much, are very responsive and are almost 90% open to meeting you as soon as possible.
For these kinds of girls it is best to keep the communication going as soon as you can – and keep it going until you guys meet up.
Some girls on the other hand want to subconsciously test you first for neediness and any signs of being clingy.
Maybe she’s really busy and not ready to meet up anytime soon. Also could be that she hasn’t made up her mind about you yet.
Whatever it is, just match her pace. Or be slower than it.
Girls are crazy, sometimes a girl who has been acting on interested just contact you I’ll talk to you I want to meet. Why do they do this because now there’s an opening for you.
I’ll give you an example. About two months ago I met a girl at the mall. I took her number and told her I will call her the next day – which I did.
I called her early in the afternoon and we agreed to meet up in the evening. Then when I called her in the evening she refused to pick my call.
I didn’t sweat it. I just understood that for some reason it was not possible for her to come and see me that evening.
Maybe she didn’t like me enough, maybe she had a boyfriend who wanted to see her.
Maybe she had some work to do.
So two weeks later I can I am as she picks up we speak a bit and then I tell her I’ll see her in the evening.
Again she agreed but when evening came she still didn’t pick my call.
So I just said to myself I’ve already tried twice, and if she doesn’t want to come that’s OK.
Just yesterday, out of nowhere she calls me up in the morning And playful he accused me of having forgotten her. I said no I haven’t, I am having a busy day I would get back to her later in the day.
Of course I had no plans of doing that because she had already flaked on me twice.
So far so to around 11 PM she calls me up again and asks why I didn’t call her. Again, I told her I had a busy day and would call her the next day.
So after a little back-and-forth I ended the call. At this point I was already in bed and was about to sleep off.
Then I asked myself, why would a girl who wanted to meet you call you by 11 PM? Of course because she wanted to come at that very moment.
So I called her back and asked her to come over to my place and she did.
Now this was a girl who was barely interested in talking to me earlier. She also flaked on me twice.
So my point is that the girl might just have her hands full at that point in time – with juggling boyfriends, jobs, family affairs or her studies.
You’d never really know. That’s why my advice is to match her pace in this case.
Some Important Don’ts:
There are lots of online dating apps and websites out there right now.
But unless you know the right way to talk to girls online, you won’t get any dates no matter how many girls you talk to.
So what’s the right way to talk to girls online?
First, have a good profile...
To keep a girls attention online you’ll need a good profile that “sells” you in a positive light.
Of course you’ll need to be well dressed in your photos.
Then these pictures need to have good backgrounds – preferably cool, fun places, outdoors or some objects inside your house that could be the topic of a conversation.
Additionally, we humans are social beings, and because of this, we want to associate with people who others already associate with.
We want to be friends with people who others already like.
So one of the most “attractive” pictures you can have in your profile will be those of you and others. It could be you and a handful full of friends having fun, or of you taking part in some group activity.
It’s even better when you have pictures of you with other girls in there.
Talk to her the right way...
There are basically three steps to any online conversation with a girl.
Step #1: Starting the Conversation
The best way to start a conversation is in a funny, interesting, unusual way – something she’s not used to, and something that catches her attention. Here are three suggestions:
If she has a good sense of humor, she’ll get the joke… if she doesn’t, then you probably don’t want to spend time with her anyway.
Afterward, you can give her a genuine compliment – and once she responds positively, you can move to the next step.
Step #2: Have a Good Conversation.
You’ll want your conversations with girls online to be different from the conversations they have with all the other boring guys.
You’ll want the girls to remember you, and look for you when they feel like chatting, instead of the thousands of other guys she’s already met on the Internet.
You can do this by:
I go really indepth about how to talk to girls and never run out of things to say here.
And once she’s having a good time chatting with you, move on to Step #3:
Step #3: Make Plans for a Date.
Of course you’re not talking to her for “talking sake”. You want to meet here and possibly date or have sex with her.
So at this point you make plans to meet up.
Don’t wait for her to bring it up because she most likely won’t.
You’re the man and it’s your job to make things happen.
So once you guys have some rapport going invite her out for a meet. You don’t want to become another online chat buddy.
Looking for questions to ask a girl you just met?
In this short guide I’m going to tell you exactly what to say when meeting new women.
Picture this: You’re out at a bar or club and you’ve just worked up the nerve to approach a girl.
You’ve gotten through your opener, she hasn’t rejected you or run off yet. And is actually interested in talking you.
But here’s the problem…
You have no idea what to say or what questions to ask her.
Don’t worry, it’s a lot easier than you think, and with the following tips, you’ll do better than 90% of guys out there.
First, here are some basic rules for talking to women
You want to do what I call the “Run-down”
This is where you find out as much as you can about her.
The reason why you want to do this is because the more you know, the more you can tailor your seduction attempts to fit her.
A good idea is to pretend you’re a CIA officer.
Imagine you’re interrogating someone who could be a member of a terrorist cell, and you need to find out critical information.
You want to be cool, calm and collected and not too forceful or pushy.
But at the same time you need to find out certain things about her.
The psychology behind this is the more she tells you about herself, the more she feels she knows you, and the greater chance you have of picking her up.
And what you really want to do is get her to talk emotionally, to emote.
Because this is what creates a deep bond and allows her to connect with you emotionally.
So listen carefully about the way she talks about various topics.
When she becomes emotional you know you’ve struck gold and should continue exploring the topic.
And that’s the point
You see, it’s not really about the specific questions, or the exact content of the questions, but about the psychology behind those questions.
Another thing you need to do is limit what you tell her.
You need to be a little mysterious, don’t tell her everything about yourself.
Instead, lay back and relax and let her do the talking.
You do the listening.
This works because no one listens, everyone wants to talk the whole time, and most people are desperate to be heard.
So if you’re a person who actually listens (And really listens) you’ll stand out from every other guy out there.
Remember, you want to find out as much information about her as you can, and then feed it back to her and use it in your seduction.
So what type of questions should you ask her?
Here’s where we get to specific questions…
Start off by asking her trivial questions, like who she’s there with and what she’s drinking.
Then move onto things like her relationships and what she wants out of life.
You can talk about her job, her friends, hopes and dreams and also ask about her long term relationships plans.
Then you can move onto more intimate questions like her relationship with her parents and most importantly, her relationship with her father.
You see, if she has a bad relationship with her father, then she’s going to be more open to have a one night stand with you.
It’s sad, but in my experience, women who have a bad relationship with their father are usually far more open to quick, easy hookups.
The reverse is also true, and if you’re looking for a stable, long term relationship, then go for girls who have a stable relationships with their parents.
Bottom line, you want to find commonalities between you and her, and get her to talk emotionally.
Another thing you can do is ask about her beliefs about God and politics.
Doing this will make you seem deep and intelligent, as if you’re a guy who thinks about more than just superficial and trivial things.
And when you’re doing this, don’t agree about everything.
If she believes in something, sometimes say you believe the opposite and vice versa.
These tips will help you get started when coming up with questions to ask a girl you just met.
But if you’re still struggling, here are a couple of sample questions you can memorize
With these tips and tricks, you’ll be able to talk to any girl, for as long as it takes to get her into bed.