For a woman, arousal is more psychological than physical.
As a man, seeing a pretty girl is all you need to become aroused.
But women need to experience certain levels of being desired, dominance and even “taboo”, before she can hit her highest levels of arousal.
And the easiest way to convey all these is through dirty talk.
You can pump a woman forever until she’s sore, without giving her an orgasm.
But add a few choice lines of dirty talk and she’ll cum continuously, till she collapses under you in a heap.
Talking dirty is easy, but you have to commit to it fully for it to be effective.
When you talk dirty, you should stand behind your words and show no hesitation.
#1. Dominant Dirty Talk:
Command her to say:
In your interactions with women, dominance should always be present.
As I mentioned earlier, it is one of the hottest attributes a man can possess in the eyes of women.
So beyond just telling what to say, command her to do stuff.
During sex, command her to go and put on heels for you.
Command her to get on her knees and suck your cock.
Command her to finger herself for you.
Command her to bend over and put her ass in the air for you.
If you’re both in a bar, restaurant or club, tell her to go to the bathroom, remove her panties and come over and hand it to you under the table.
When she does, put it in your pocket.
She’ll be insanely turned on by this, and can’t wait to rip off your clothes the moment you two get home.
On a final note, being dominant is not something you whip out during sex and then become a whinny bitch afterward.
It should be a way of life for you.
It means taking responsibility as a man and getting your shit handled.
It means not whining & complaining to your woman about stuff.
Grouses go up, as they say.
The less dominant person complains to the more dominant one.
When you internalize dominant behaviour and remove whinny ones, it becomes easier for you to be congruent with dominance during sex.
# 2. Statements of Intent:
In this type of dirty talk, you explicitly tell the woman the dirty things you are going to do to her.
My goal in this article is not to tell you exactly what to say, but rather to give you a template.
I’m sure there are specific things that turn you on. So tell her how you’re going to do those things to her.
#3. Statements of Desire:
In this category of dirty talk, you express your sexually long for the girl.
How much you want her.
How much you want to ravish her…
Here you sexually compliment your woman.
And since it’s dirty talk, you go to town and be as explicit as possible.
Of course, for maximum effect, you have to mix them up.
However, depending on how you feel, you can use one category more heavily than the others.
Let’s say you traveled on a business trip, and you’re away from your woman, then, naturally, it’s going to be more desire type dirty talk, than the others.
Do you want to learn how to keep a hard-on after cumming…
So that you can sexually satisfy the women in your life?
If yes, then I’ll teach you how to do it right now.
To keep a hard-on after cumming, you need to become a multi-orgasmic man.
You need to develop the ability to have multiple orgasms in a row – like women.
And it’s easy.
You can achieve this feat using a simple set of exercises called the PC Muscle exercises or Kegel exercises or pelvic floor exercises.
It is named after the American doctor who popularized it.
In men, once we ejaculate we go into a refractory period, and once we’re in this “period”, it is physically impossible to have further orgasms.
And 99% of men cannot maintain an erection in during this phase.
I’m sure you know what I’m talking about – from personal experience.
Your penis becomes hypersensitive, and you temporarily lose all interest in sex.
Your girl is lying there looking at you.
You know she is not happy with you and wishes that you’d last longer…
But your penis is spent.
You’ve orgasmed and there’s nothing else you could do.
#1: Locate your PC muscle:
The PC muscle is easy to find.
It is the set of muscles you clench when you keep yourself from urinating.
It is located between the under of your ballsack and your anus.
The easiest way to find them is to stop yourself mid-way during urination.
The muscles that you contracted to stop your urine flow are what you are looking for.
It is the same set of muscles that spasm to push out cum when you orgasm.
The goal is to train it to become stronger (it’s a muscle remember).
And once it becomes stronger, you can voluntarily contract it to just before orgasm – to keep yourself from ejaculating.
And if you have a dry orgasm – without ejaculation – you won’t lose your erection.
Your goal is to train your PC muscle to be strong enough to do this.
With consistency, you will be able to keep a hard-on after cumming within a few weeks.
#2. Long Squeezes/Clenches:
Clench and hold for a total of 10 minutes.
Of course, don’t forget to rest for 10 seconds in between each rep.
Do this morning and night.
#3. Short Squeezes/Clenches:
Do this too for a total of ten minutes. With rests of 10 seconds in between each rep.
Do this morning and night too.
You can practice these anywhere…
You can do them sitting on a park bench.
In a coffee shop.
Lying in your bed.
And the sweet part is that no one else will ever know.
One of the best times to practice is during masturbation.
Stroke yourself until you on the verge of ejaculation, then clench and hold your PC muscle to see how much control you’ve attained.
Wash, rinse, repeat…
Also, you can practice with your partner.
The right time to clench your PC muscle is the moment right before ejaculation.
Imagine there’s a 1, 2, 3, go countdown leading up to when you cum.
Clench it immediately the count gets to 3.
Clench and hold.
Also stop all thrusting motion.
What will happen is you’ll have a dry orgasm.
You’ll orgasm without ejaculating.
You’ll feel the same pleasure you normally do from an orgasm.
But what you’ll find is that instead of losing your erection, it comes back to rock-hard in under 10 seconds.
Way to go…
With this ability, you will get into an elite group of men who can have sex with their women for as long as needed.
I hope you don’t get lazy and stop practicing.
Don’t procrastinate too.
Are you tired of the embarrassment of cumming too fast?
If yes, then I can help you become the bedroom champ your woman desires.
1. PC Muscle (or Kegel) Exercises: For me, this has been the most dependable long-term solution.
It has turned me into a multi-orgasmic man.
And if you do these exercises, you will gain the ability to last longer and have multiple orgasms too.
Something, normally, only women could do.
That is, you have an orgasm right now, and in the next 30 seconds you're banging her again - as if you hadn't cum.
Exercising your PC muscle will also help you have harder and fuller erections.
BTW, PC muscle is short for Pubococcygeus Muscle.
It is the muscle that controls urination, and that spasms when you ejaculate.
It is located on the floor of the pelvic cavity, between your anus and your balls.
In its untrained state, the PC muscle is weak and you have minor voluntary control over it.
Enough control to keep you from wetting yourself, but not enough to stop a powerful spasm like an orgasm.
PC Muscle exercises are very easy to do, they consist of clenching and unclenching the PC muscle a given number of times during the day.
You can do this while sitting or lying down. And no one can even tell that you're doing something.
Here's a comprehensive PC muscle exercise article. It includes diagrams and instructions.
Usually, you will start seeing results within 1 month.
Personally, I was able to control my ejaculation within 2 weeks - with the help of PC muscle exercises.
2. Take short breaks from Penetration: This is an effective method you can start using right away.
When you feel yourself getting closer to an orgasm, stopping your penis from getting stimulated will help you stave off cumming.
If you're in her thrusting, slow down or pull out completely.
If she's giving oral or a handjob, stop her.
When you take a break such as this, you don't have to stop all sexual activity.
You can use the opportunity to kiss, careless and fondle her. Give her head or just cuddle.
After a little while your arousal will wane a little, then you can continue with penetrative sex, or whatever you want.
Should you let her know you're trying to cum?
If you want to.
There's no shame in it.
You can even turn it into a compliment for the girl.
I usually just say, "Your pussy is so sweet; I'm trying so hard not to cum right now"
They always love this.
Sometimes, if it's with some fun/crazy girl, she'll then start thrusting and gyrating her hips to make you cum.
3. Change positions: Some positions make it easier for you to cum faster.
For me, that position is the modified doggy style where the girl lies flat on her stomach and I penetrate from behind.
It is also my favorite.
I'm sure you have yours.
What you need to do is switch to a different sex position once you feel yourself approaching orgasm.
You can switch to doggy, or have the girl get on top.
Just any other position that isn't as "sensitive" for you.
4. Masturbate Before Sex: I don't advise you do this often, because the "drive" you dissipate when you masturbate is the same you need to "perform".
So if you leak your "drive" by masturbating before sex, you might find it difficult to perform when the time comes for sex.
I only recommend this is if you haven't cum in a long time.
I find that I reach orgasm faster if I hadn't ejaculated in while.
And most guys last longer during the second round of sex.
So if there's a girl you're perhaps seeing for the first time, and you're over excited and anxious and don't want to "disappoint" her.
Then you can masturbate earlier in the day before you guys meet.
5. Use Special "Last Longer" Condoms: Indeed there are condoms specifically designed to make you last last longer in bed.
Some are thicker, while others have a numbing anesthetic to decrease the sensitivity of your penis.
Condoms labelled "Extra Safe", "Extra Strong" or "Extended Pleasure" are thicker.
Here's some condom thickness comparison...
Also, some other condoms like Durex Performax Intense contain 5% benzocaine lubricant on the inside to numb your penis a bit so you don't cum fast.
6. Use Desensitizing Sprays, Creams and Gels: These class of products contain either benzocaine or Lidocaine as the numbing agents.
They make the penis less sensitive, in other words numb.
There are several products out there like the K-Y Duration Spray and Durex Play Longer.
7. Employ Extended Foreplay: Most women love foreplay more than actual penetration.
And only a miserly 25% of women can reach orgasm from penetrative sex.
A lot of them will tell you they prefer foreplay to last 20 minutes and penetration from say 5 - 10 minutes.
And what is our goal in all this?
To satisfy her of course!
So you can prolong your sex session with foreplay and also make her cum more - because she will be 10 times more aroused.
So, first use your tongue, fingers and even sex toys to get her engine revved up.
Your penis is only but one of the tools in your arsenal.
Knowing how to finger a girl properly is an important tool to have in your sexual bag of tricks.
Your fingers don't ejaculate so there's no problem of losing an "erection".
And using your fingers to stimulate a woman's vagina is one of the most reliable ways of inducing a powerful g-spot orgasm.
The wrong way to finger a girl...
Most guy finger girls wrongly.
They make a stabbing motion in her pussy and that's it.
The stabbing motion does nothing for the girl.
A good place to learn how to finger a girl properly is from videos of girls masturbating, or from lesbian porn.
Watch how the girls touch their pussies.
Search for "female orgasm compilations".
Here Are The 6 Ways to Finger a Girl:
Do you want to be the first guy she thinks of whenever she gets horny?
If you answered "yes", then I am going to teach you how to give any girl the best head she's ever had.
Head that will make her cum explosively every single time.
Here's how to give a girl head she'll never forget:
Getting a blow job is easy.
However, there are certain mindsets you must adopt before hand to make girls want to suck your dick.
So today, I will show you how to get a blow job from the girls you like. Plus the mindsets that make it easy for this to happen for you.
Mindsets to get blow jobs quickly:
Ways to get blow jobs fast:
A few more tips:
When a girl is not interested, she will show many signs to pass this across.
Unfortunately, for some guys, you'll need to hit them over the head with these signs before they can get the hint.
I was once like this too.
Well, never worry, because today, I am going to reveal to you the signs that show - in no uncertain terms that she's not interested.
Top 5 Signs She's Not Interested in You:
What to do when a girl isn't interested: Nobody can get every girl he fancies.
So what to do when a girl isn't interested is take the rejection like a boss and move one with your life.
I can assure that no matter how cute and sexy you think she is today, tomorrow, you're going to meet a hotter, sexier cuter girl.
So improve yourself to become the best you can be in attracting women.
The tons of articles on this site and in my newsletter will help you in this regard.
A rejection can be very brutal to our egos.
It makes you question your value as a person...
Am I not good enough?
Do I really suck as a person?
Today, I will teach you how to handle rejections from girls like a boss.
And even how to turn a rejection into a yes.
Rejections are good...
The more you get rejected, the more you'll get laid.
If you're getting rejected it means you're taking action and talking to girls.
Which means you are already better than 90% of guys out there.
A popular saying I like goes thus: "You miss 100% of the shots you never take."
This applies especially to success with women. If you don't risk rejection then your chances of getting laid are zero.
Here are the top 4 ways to handle rejections from a girl:
If girls don't like you, trust me, it's not because of your looks.
Or your money, or car, etc.
It's mostly about things you can change in yourself beginning right now.
Today, I will reveal to you the reasons girls reject you, despite your best efforts.
And I won't just stop there...
I'll also tell you what to do to fix each problem.
If you apply the advice that I have for you below, your friends won't recognize you in a couple weeks.
And girls will be helplessly drawn to the new masculine you.
Here are the top 5 reasons why girls don't like you:
Women will hardly ever chase you.
Instead, they'll drop hints and give you signs to act upon.
Unfortunately, many guys are inexperienced and miss these signs because they don't understand women.
From today, you will no longer be among those who don't get it.
Here are the 7 signs she wants you to chase her: